Relationship and Career Advice

Our society places too much value on love -- romantic love -- and not on compatibility in other respects. Mutual respect. Episode 079

If you're under 30 and in a relationship, and after you're a year not talking about marriage, get the fuck out. (via Erik Griffin) Episode 079

Asa: Getting married for men is more of a timing thing than finding the perfect woman. Once men are at the stage in their life where they're ready to be married, the girl that comes along in that period will be the one they'll choose to marry. For women though, marriage is always about finding the right man, regardless of the stage in their own life.

3 months. 3 months is all you need to figure out if you want to stay with a girl or a job. You don't need years. Episode 139

You want the job? You'll get it. You'll show up. - David Chang Episode 077

Do you like the people you're working with, do you like the job, is the pay good. 2 OUT OF 3? Take the job. 1 out of 3, don't take it. Episode 101

For anyone doing something creative professionally, you know that promoting, marketing, selling, hustling your shit is 90% of the work. There are a million writers / porn stars / musicians etc out there. You have to promote your work. People have "dignity" like this and that, but you have to swallow that shit and whore yourself out. After you make a GREAT product, that's when the work really starts. Foreally Show Episode 085 w/ Dave Choe @ 7:27